Athletic children need support from trusted adults. Sports can be physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting, but they can also be fulfilling. Children have some of their best experiences on the field and on the court. Being part of a team brings children together and helps them form lifelong friendships and fond memories. Here’s how you can support your aspiring athlete and help them make the most of their experiences:
Help Them Stay Motivated
What your aspiring athlete needs most of all is encouragement. This starts with being at every game and being present with them after. Provide words of encouragement and positivity to boost your child's confidence. When they’re just starting out, they may need to be reminded that no one begins as a pro. If they make mistakes, help them reframe them as learning opportunities. Keep your child motivated to stay dedicated and focused on their goals.
Invest in Their Future
Sports can be expensive. However, it can be worth the investment if it’s truly what your child wants to do. Invest in quality sports equipment and gear for your child so they can be safe and perform their best. Cover the costs of training sessions, competitions and travel expenses. Keep these expenses in mind whenever your child expresses interest in a new hobby or sport.
Attend and Cheer at Games
Showing up is half the battle. Your athletic child will remember that you were there for their games and competitions. Be a positive and enthusiastic spectator, cheering on your child and their teammates. When they’re young, they may act embarrassed about your enthusiasm, but they really do appreciate it.
Offer Emotional Support
Disappointment happens. It’s very rare that a team wins every game, and not every child can be the star player. Help your child cope with these setbacks as they happen. During times of intense pressure, like your child’s team playing that one game or going to that one competition that determines the outcome of the reason, help them destress. Encourage them to find an activity outside of the sport that helps them calm down. When they’re centered, they’ll perform better when the big day comes.
Connect with the Team
Build positive relationships with your child's coaches and teammates. Connecting with their athletic community can go a long way toward showing your child you care. Stay involved in the team’s activities, and show your support. This can be especially helpful when conflicts arise and your child needs you to step in and help.
At North Tampa Christian Academy, we are proud of our student athletes and do what we can to help them succeed. Students at our Tampa private school thrive creatively, academically and spiritually in a project-based learning environment. Faculty and families work together to inspire leadership through Christian innovation. Contact us today to learn more.