Learning to drive as a teen can be exciting. With a car, you can go where you want when you want. Suddenly, after a lifetime of relying on others, you can be a little more independent. Parents can help their teens understand the responsibility that comes with this newfound freedom. Here are some tips for setting house rules for your teen driver:
Establishing Expectations
Start by discussing driving privileges and responsibilities with your teen. Chances are, they’ve thought more about their newfound independence than what they need to do to earn it. Establish guidelines, like curfew and passenger restrictions, at the beginning. Set clear consequences for breaking rules. Doing this upfront will lead to fewer questions when you need to enforce the rules.
Safe Driving Practices
Before your child goes out on the road, make sure they know how to do so safely. When you talk about driving safety, make sure you have their full attention. Emphasize the importance of wearing seatbelts at all times. Discus the dangers of distracted driving, such as texting and talking on the phone. Encourage defensive driving techniques and awareness of other drivers on the road, especially if you live in a highly populated area.
Monitoring Behavior
When your teen goes out driving, you’ll want to know where they are. This is as much for their safety as it is for your peace of mind. Find a teen driver monitoring app, like Life360 or TrueMotion, that provides location information as well as insights on driving habits. Check in with your teen regularly about their driving experiences. When appropriate, provide feedback to help them become safer drivers.
Encouraging Responsibility
Driving can be fun, but it doesn’t come without responsibilities and expenses. Have a talk with your teen about the cost of car maintenance and insurance. Set expectations for gas and maintenance responsibilities. The last thing you want is for your teen to be out of gas or stranded because they waited too long to maintain their car. This would also be a great time to remind your teen about the dangers of distracted driving. Have them take ownership of their driving habits to reduce the risk of accidents.
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