Children are the future, whether or not they realize it. Every child has many different potential paths to becoming who they will someday be. But parents, you can only do so much. In some ways, children need your help. In other ways, you’re just along for the ride. At North Tampa, we believe that finding the balance between the two is the best way to nurture your child’s genius. Here are five ways you can help your child discover what makes them great.
Focus on Existing Talents
Every child is unique, and not every child needs to aspire to be a doctor or lawyer to be considered “successful” in life. It may not be obvious from the start, but children can use who they are to create and pursue their goals. Define your child’s success as reaching their unique potential, rather than tailoring it to society’s goals or your own. Avoid comparing your child to other children or yourself at your child’s age. This will help you see who they are and boost their self-esteem.
Observe Without Judgment
See what your child does when left to their own devices. You’ll start to notice patterns. Maybe your child is always humming or literally can’t put down a good book. Listen to what they can’t stop talking about, and ask what you can do to help further their interests. Help them find resources to explore their interests and talents so they can reach the next level.
Embrace Change
Your child may have one dream for a few years, then grow out of it as they discover other interests. It’s natural for interests to change as children find new things that capture their attention. When they give up on something, dig deeper. See if you can figure out why. If they’re still interested but discouraged about the pursuit, see what you can do to help them love it again.
Be Their Biggest Fan
Whether they show it or not, your child wants your approval. Encourage them in whatever they choose to do, even if it’s not something that you’re passionate about. Attend as many baseball games, piano recitals, video game tournaments or art competitions as possible, and cheer your child on as they go. Show appreciation for what they do, and help them develop their talents by encouraging them to practice and finding resources that allow them to grow.
Let Them Explore
One way your child can find their genius is by seeing everything that’s out there. Give them plenty of opportunities to explore different interests. Encourage them to do extracurricular activities and sign up for classes that will help them meet their goals. Some schools, like North Tampa Christian Academy, offer a wide range of classes and activities that allow children to create their own educational experiences. The more room a child has to explore, the easier it will be for them to discover and fully develop their genius.
At North Tampa Christian Academy, a Tampa private school, students thrive creatively, academically and spiritually in a project-based learning environment. Faculty and families work together to inspire leadership through Christian innovation. Contact us today to learn more.